By Eric L. Miller
As often as I get asked questions on how to attract a committed relationship, I get asked about the problems and issues that stand in the way of attracting lasting love.That is the crux of the issue. Let me explain. You may now understand that the Universe is an intention fulfillment machine. It matches and mirrors back the thoughts and emotions you're transmitting. The Universe is conscious of you and all that operates under the energy management system known as the Law of Attraction.
Get clear about what you want. Before you can create the relationship of a lifetime, you need to know what that is for you. Sometimes people make the mistake of defining their ideal relationship as being with a specific person, rather than identifying the true essence of what they really want. Clarify the fundamental feelings, emotions, and experiences you want, and let the Universe fill in the face. (Otherwise you may play the game of trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.)
If you're in a dissatisfying relationship now, stop pigeon-holing your partner. When we're not happy with a current relationship, we often box our partners in without realizing it. We think of them as who they have been, rather than allowing a mental space for who they might be.As long as we hold a mental image of them as the person we aren't happy with, they continue to show up that way. Give them room to be who they are capable of being by entertaining higher thoughts and expectations of them. People live up to and down to your expectations!
Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.Creating a beautiful love life,Once you have let go of any attachment to that person, you have given a very powerful and strong signal to the Universe you are now ready for love in your life. If previously your love was one sided now it's time to create a both sided relationship. You are a super hero in your theater of the mind. Your movie is in your mind and your movie creates your reality. You have 100% control over your imagination and use this wisely to create a reality of your choice.
You must be a match on the inside before it will show up on the outside. It's always an inner game. And I hope you'll be easy with yourself and make it fun. Life is meant to be enjoyed and if you want it with the love of you dreams.Most people don't realize that the law of attraction works for everything. It's not just about attracting money, or that new job or car, or any other material thing you may want, it's about using it to attract everything you want in your life, including attracting love. Since the law of attraction is always on and you're attracting everything into your life already, why not do so consciously.
Law of Attraction Love.In using the law of attraction to attract love, you must have a clear vision of what you want in your ultimate relationship. We're talking details here, not generalities. And if you don't define exactly what you want, you may end up with a prince that turns into a toad or a witch disguised as a princess.Attracting The Prince or Princess.The thing to realize about Law of Attraction Love is that you will be attracting to you exactly how you feel about yourself. How you feel about yourself, how much you love yourself---will be mirrored to you by the person you attract. So it is very important that you...
Love Yourself First.Every relationship we have, be they the ones from work, play, our communities or our private lives--all of these relationships reflect back to us the love we give ourselves. They will tell you or not whether you are loving yourself first.While this may seem selfish, it is imperative if you are going to partner with someone else. If you don't love yourself, how can you love another? If you don't love yourself, how can they love you? When you are in a relationship, you will find that the way that person loves you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself.
Since I had digested every last relationship publication I could find, made sure each and every social event I attended was geared to acquiring love, learned country dancing, obtained cosmetic surgery, hired a "find your soul mate" coach, attended a "Getting Love After 35" course, I really had exhausted most every traditional method I could find to acquire love.I figured, "What exactly do I have to lose?" In just one week I had the relationship candle magic ritual in my hands and ignited it.The first thing that happened was I relaxed. I decided if this thing was going to work, I would put it to the test. Therefore, I quit venturing out on Friday nights to destinations where I could meet a love interest. Instead I went out with a handful of individuals from the job for a beer at a neighborhood pub.That day, 10 days after doing the love spell, like magic I met a guy who became my significant other for the next eight years!
I think that's why people struggle for the best house, the best clothes, the best car, the best body---because there's something missing on the inside.Having all these material things are great---but if you seek them to fill the hole inside, you'll find that hole is really a black hole that continually consumes everything around you. It affects and warps the energy field of everything in your life.There's only one thing that fills the black hole within and it is self-love. There's no magic pill you can take that can fix it, but if you pay attention, apply your consciousness and start to love yourself first, watch out, because your life will change for the better.
Get clear about what you want. Before you can create the relationship of a lifetime, you need to know what that is for you. Sometimes people make the mistake of defining their ideal relationship as being with a specific person, rather than identifying the true essence of what they really want. Clarify the fundamental feelings, emotions, and experiences you want, and let the Universe fill in the face. (Otherwise you may play the game of trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.)
If you're in a dissatisfying relationship now, stop pigeon-holing your partner. When we're not happy with a current relationship, we often box our partners in without realizing it. We think of them as who they have been, rather than allowing a mental space for who they might be.As long as we hold a mental image of them as the person we aren't happy with, they continue to show up that way. Give them room to be who they are capable of being by entertaining higher thoughts and expectations of them. People live up to and down to your expectations!
Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.Creating a beautiful love life,Once you have let go of any attachment to that person, you have given a very powerful and strong signal to the Universe you are now ready for love in your life. If previously your love was one sided now it's time to create a both sided relationship. You are a super hero in your theater of the mind. Your movie is in your mind and your movie creates your reality. You have 100% control over your imagination and use this wisely to create a reality of your choice.
You must be a match on the inside before it will show up on the outside. It's always an inner game. And I hope you'll be easy with yourself and make it fun. Life is meant to be enjoyed and if you want it with the love of you dreams.Most people don't realize that the law of attraction works for everything. It's not just about attracting money, or that new job or car, or any other material thing you may want, it's about using it to attract everything you want in your life, including attracting love. Since the law of attraction is always on and you're attracting everything into your life already, why not do so consciously.
Law of Attraction Love.In using the law of attraction to attract love, you must have a clear vision of what you want in your ultimate relationship. We're talking details here, not generalities. And if you don't define exactly what you want, you may end up with a prince that turns into a toad or a witch disguised as a princess.Attracting The Prince or Princess.The thing to realize about Law of Attraction Love is that you will be attracting to you exactly how you feel about yourself. How you feel about yourself, how much you love yourself---will be mirrored to you by the person you attract. So it is very important that you...
Love Yourself First.Every relationship we have, be they the ones from work, play, our communities or our private lives--all of these relationships reflect back to us the love we give ourselves. They will tell you or not whether you are loving yourself first.While this may seem selfish, it is imperative if you are going to partner with someone else. If you don't love yourself, how can you love another? If you don't love yourself, how can they love you? When you are in a relationship, you will find that the way that person loves you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself.
Since I had digested every last relationship publication I could find, made sure each and every social event I attended was geared to acquiring love, learned country dancing, obtained cosmetic surgery, hired a "find your soul mate" coach, attended a "Getting Love After 35" course, I really had exhausted most every traditional method I could find to acquire love.I figured, "What exactly do I have to lose?" In just one week I had the relationship candle magic ritual in my hands and ignited it.The first thing that happened was I relaxed. I decided if this thing was going to work, I would put it to the test. Therefore, I quit venturing out on Friday nights to destinations where I could meet a love interest. Instead I went out with a handful of individuals from the job for a beer at a neighborhood pub.That day, 10 days after doing the love spell, like magic I met a guy who became my significant other for the next eight years!
I think that's why people struggle for the best house, the best clothes, the best car, the best body---because there's something missing on the inside.Having all these material things are great---but if you seek them to fill the hole inside, you'll find that hole is really a black hole that continually consumes everything around you. It affects and warps the energy field of everything in your life.There's only one thing that fills the black hole within and it is self-love. There's no magic pill you can take that can fix it, but if you pay attention, apply your consciousness and start to love yourself first, watch out, because your life will change for the better.
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